Approaching Women Everything You Need To Know

What you say when approaching women does not really matter. The most important thing when approaching women is your confidence level and how you say it. In modern terms “your swag.” Make sure you smile when approaching women. Sound confident by speaking with a louder voice. Enjoy your time and make sure to have fun when approaching women. Do not get stuck on results too much. If you only approach one woman all night be happy about that because you actually attempted it. When you start thinking about results and not the current situation in front of you women will sense this. You will look like a creep and will not be fun.

What To Say When Approaching Women

If you guys are wearing similar clothing such as jean jackets, bomber jackets, or sneakers. Just go up to her and say “Why did you copy my outfit today?” Most likely she will laugh and then you can tell her “you at least could have rocked it better than me.” Statements like this are not very creative but it gets her laughing and you opened her up.

Also, you can switch up your opener. if you have a piece of clothing that most girls do not wear. You can just go up to a random girl and say “I was going to wear that outfit today, you must have read my mind.” This works best if the girl has on a dress or something that guys do not wear. It seems funny because she knows you were not actually going to wear that dress because you are a guy. The main part about clothing opener is that you are supposed to be as funny as possible and just having a good time.

You Approached Her! What Now?

You can ask basic questions such as “how long have you been here?” “Where are you from?” “Do you go school around here?” “What’s your name?” These questions are just to build comfort with her and if you are a beginner these are great conversation topics. When you become more advanced you will be able to start conversations without asking questions. For example: When you ask her name, and she says it. You can response “hmm I have met a couple of (her name) and they were all crazy please do not tell me you are crazy.”

More Example Openers

If you can figure out her nationally by looking at her, the perfect opener would be something such as. “You are African (her nationality) I can tell, let me guess where you are from (take a few guesses of her country).” When saying phrases like this make sure you are very confident and smile while saying this. Most of the time you will guess wrong and sometimes she will give you hints. If you guess right you will immediately put a smile on her face. Then after you open her up you can start a conversation.

Clothing Gets People To Approach You

Wearing conversational pieces of clothing you, people will start approaching you. If you wear a sports team jersey during the playoffs, people will come up to you start talking to about the team. Basketball jerseys cause mainly guys to talk to you but this will help you look more social. Also if they have girls with them you can talk to them also. If you wear baseball or hockey jerseys girls will start talking to you also. A great piece of clothing that gets girls to approach them are shirts with bold statements on them. I wear a God Is Dope Shirt and Black Men Don’t Cheat Shirt.

Important Things To Remember When Approaching Women

Most of the time girls do not go out by themselves. Most women will be found with a group of other girls. So when approaching women do not try and isolate them. You should try and talk to every single girl in her group. This will not only make the friends more comfortable with you, but it will also make you look like a social butterfly. Tips for when approaching the whole group: If you ask one girl a question you should ask every girl that same question. Smile and joke around with both girls. Become their friends then try and choose which one you want afterward.

How To Get Over Approach Anxiety

No matter how good you become at approaching women it is hard to get over approach anxiety. The best tip for getting over approach anxiety is just DO IT. Do not think about it, just approach and say whatever comes to the top of your head. That is the best advice for getting over approach anxiety. When you see her you only have about three to five second before you approach anxiety kicks in. Approach her as fast as possible so it becomes instinct after a while.

If you need alcohol to approach her then just use it. Whatever helps you take action then use it. The worst that can happen is getting rejected. Even when you become a master at approach you still get rejected. Also, the feeling of not approaching is worse than the feeling of getting rejected. If you make the attempt to approach her that is an accomplishment because most guys are scared to approach women.

Approach As Many Women As Possible

In the beginning, do not worry too much about how attractive she is. If you worry about looks and you are not good it might stunt your growth with women. Just approach all types of women at the beginning. Most women are the same and you can use them as practice. Also, in the beginning, you want to develop confidence. The sad truth is that you need to become successful with lower quality women at first. They help you develop confidence. You can not start off at the top, you have to start from the bottom and work your way up.

Failure Is How You Get Better At Approaching Women

You learn a lot more from your failure then your success. If you approach a woman and get rejected this is not the end of the world. Rejection is not permanent! Just remember what you did wrong and learn from it. Women reject men just make themselves feel better. Also sometimes when you are successful with women it is not because you ran good game it is just sometimes because she is really interested. When you get reject try and smile then go to approach another group of girls to get over it.

Should You Get Her Number

Every group of girl you approach you should try and get their phone numbers, Instagram or snapchat. Even if you think she is not feeling you, there is always a chance that when you text her she will be interested. Most of the time even the girl you think are interested will not even text back. If you approach ten women and get all their phone numbers. Realistically only about five will answer back. The more phone numbers you get the higher your chances are for becoming successful with one of them.

Also if she doesn’t answer when you text her. It is not the end of the world. Every single girl’s phone number that you get that night, save their number and add them on snapchat. Most of the time if she doesn’t answer your text she will answer you snapchat. To become more successful with women you have to increase your chances and opportunity to run game on them.

Get The Details About Her Night

You should make sure to ask her, “who she came with? Where she lives or is from? How long she has been at the function? Where is she going afterward?” Do not ask her this in an interview way. Have a natural conversation with her then slide these questions into the conversation. The purpose of asking these question is to try and increase your chance of getting her to hang out with you after the bar or club. You can ask her if she wants to go get some food with you guys after the bar. Or you can ask her if she and her friends want to come back to your spot and have an after party with you and your friends. Make sure you have liquor, food or a tv to watch movies.