Are average or slightly sub average guys completely screwed when it comes to dating?

PUA_Mobius · 2016-12-24T13:13:43+00:00

Alright so imagine every girl has a bowl that must be filled to the brim in order for her to consider sleeping with you, and every girl considers different traits to fill different amounts of the bowl. Some of these traits are: attractiveness, youth, personality, success, and money

So let's say this hot babe considers "money" to be the most filling trait. A man with a lot of money easily fills that bowl. A man with no money needs a lot more of other traits in order to reach the same result.

Now, another hot babe considers attractiveness to be the most filling trait. A very attractive man fills the bowl instantly. A less attractive man needs to throw in some personality, success, or money or all of them to make up for what the attractiveness lacks.

The worst example, someone with 0 attractiveness at all - requires a lot of personality, success, and/or money to fill up that "bowl" with most women. The more a woman values attractiveness the harder it is to meet those criteria without it, but for the right price it can be done. A 0 attractiveness guy can probably get most girls to go on a date for $100,000. Cause that money filled the bowl despite the heavier influence of attractiveness in her mind.

The moral of the story - work on your personality, success and wealth (attractiveness can be worked on too, hit the r/fitness, r/skincareaddiction, r/malefashionadvice) and your odds will improve

Gebbo1 · 2016-12-24T13:10:35+00:00

What a stupid question to be honest, I think you are being a hypocrit for wanting hot girls yourself but when these girls prefer hot guys over you they are in the wrong? Making fun of someone is wrong but you should understand that when they can get better looking guys than you they will chose them. That is what you would do too! So social skills come into play but that's an entirely different subject.

Title	Are average or slightly sub average guys completely screwed when it comes to dating?
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Date	December 24, 2016 12:31 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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