Ok, so I found a link to this article somewhere on Reddit. http://stopbetashit.com/?page_id=38 It's been an intersting series to read. I have some questions and would like some opinions.

So, just for background, in the last year I've lost over 100lbs and really worked on boosting my confidence and self value. It's worked. I feel kick ass now and life is better than ever.

I feel like I come across as kind of boring at times because I'm fairly quiet and laid back naturally. I can have fun and stuff but I think sometimes it comes across as a little forced. I'm working on that as well. The last few years, I've been doing some really cool shit. I've traveled around the world twice and been all over the US. Made some cool friends. I'm really smart. I've been invited to assist well known professors with research all over the US and other parts of the world.

I feel like a pretty fun and awesome person, but I really can't seem to make it apparent in conversations or a pick up setting without it being braggy or awkard. Any advice on how to let your inherent value show more naturally? Any advice on how to let awesome experiances keep you in a better state more of the time?