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Attraction Formula

ToughKage92 · 2021-08-04T05:11:26+00:00

Does anyone know of or remember Adam Lyons Attraction Formula????Do you understand it? C-R+Q+SE=A Comfort minus Rapport plus Qualification plus Sexual...

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August 4, 2021

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Title	Attraction Formula
Author	ToughKage92
Upvotes	7
Comments	2
Date	August 4, 2021 5:11 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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[–]Chillout_paradise420 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

[–]ToughKage92[S] 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Sure I’ll do it as if I was approaching with canned material

Comfort- you looked rather friendly Minus Rapport- oh but up close you look like you’re brutally honest and sorta mean Plus Qualification- so what’s the nicest and meanest thing you’ve told your close friends? Plus Sexual Escalation (keep in mind this part includes light touching or Kino that ramps up with or slightly after your words)- You’re only mean when you need to be? Does that include your red room?

In this example I opened her by complimenting her(trust me works better than a Neg everytime) aka built Comfort then taking away some (never take it all away) of that comfort aka Breaking Rapport . Then I got her to Qualify herself to me by explaining something. The one that’s more complex and you’ve to calibrate is the Sexual Escalation where I mentioned the RedRoom which is a reference to 50 Shades Of Grey. In that set of examples I can play the redroom off as a joke if she’s not ready for it and basically start over building more comfort.

Comfort is easy just having a conversation that’s going well and you’re both agreeing and enjoying it.

Breaking Rapport is in its simplest form just disagreeing with her, “oh gross you like snakes?!”, Making them feel as if it’s not going as smoothly as it just was and they want to fix it

Qualification is getting them to explain themselves or justify something. The harder part is rewarding them after they’ve explained it. “Ohhh ok that’s why you like snakes, that’s so cute”

Sexual Escalation is getting her to think about sensual/sexual things, turn on their mind before their body. Earlier i mentioned the RedRoom as a throw away line but a large majority of women know what I referenced and now they’re thinking about that series of books and how it made them feel.