Hey there seddit. Recently the quality of posts to this subreddit has been called into question, and I'm inclined to agree. From the endless open ended questions to the also endless blog posts which are more to promote a PUA than to help the people who need it. These posts weren't the ones that made me successful with women. It was the countless number of self posts and field reports that did it. So I figured I'd start from the very basics. That's why I've decided to create this post about attraction. If this garners enough attention then I'll make more posts.

So what exactly is attraction?

Attraction at its core is a feeling of interest. The fact that its a feeling is important, and is the entire reason why most advice found on the internet is general advice and why seduction is an art not a science. Feelings change from day to day and mood to mood. They only become constant if the feeling remains the same for a long time. Note two aspects of this definition: Attraction changes and to keep attraction constant that person has to feel constant attraction to you.

So how does this affect you?

Well first off, if you were anything like me when I started, then the people you want aren't attracted to you. This isn't constant. If you put the work in the you will attract the people you need to in your life. It's not perfect, but you will see improvement if you actually put in effort.

The second equally important part is, if you want a constant reaction, you have to be constant yourself. This is a huge reason why people have hot/cold nights or get mixed signals from women. A lot of human interaction is just reacting to whats happening in front of them. If you give mixed states of, for lack of better terms, alpha/beta or different levels of confidence then you will receive confusion back. That's why one of the most important things, above all else, is actually going out and getting experience. Reading theory and practicing lines only gets you so far. You need to approach. Period. You know who you want to be, but until who you are now and who you want to be in the future line up, then you will get sub par results. The only way to make that happen is to do what your future self would do and that is get babes.

My next post will be over different types of attraction. Putting a face to why men's faces don't matter as much.