I just stumbled across this sub and it seems there are general misconceptions about reality and a lot of men seem really confused and lost.

A lot of men are seeking to raise their value by acquisition either through money, muscles, charm, and what not... when in fact you can lead a more fulfilling life that not only attract women but everything else you desire, it does not need to happen through manipulation but simple existence of the highest stage a human can reach. A man's task is not to build more boundaries and barriers to distinguish himself from another man but simply get rid of those boundaries and barriers that lead towards love from within.

You might become this man with lots of muscles and money, and you might even attract multiple women as a result of it... do you really believe this will lead you to become feeling fulfilled? It won't, you can witness this in celebrities very clearly. There is a higher meaning to being, other than your short-lived gratifications and your ego-driven needs. When I talk about such things, I mean that life should not always be about ourselves, there are too many I's in our lives and this creates selfishness... it is an attitude that will neither benefit you nor anyone else.

Instead choose to be a Well for others, to nourish them and support them and encourage the best... become more honest, more kind, it will soften your hardened hearts and you can once again feel the joy of life. Cleanse your hearts, your eyes, your hearing, your soul and body... then you will notice that life is simply a mirror of who we have become. That is the real worth of what constitutes a man... someone who was there for others.