Hey guys. I just wanted to share something from personal experience.

I am not to very good at going up to girls and attempting to grind on them because the whole idea seems pretty complicated to me (especially if the girl I want is in a group).

So if any of you are like me, you need to OWN THAT FUCKING DANCE FLOOR. I don't mean everyone in the club or concert has their eyes on you, I just mean own that little space that you have been provided to dance in (and it probably will be quite small if there are several people around you). Don't give a shit about anyone around you. Don't make eye contact with anyone or even look at anyone (that part comes later) just fucking dance. You are here to fucking have a good time and dance to some badass music.[Dont make eye contact but make note of girls that have gotten closer to you since you started dancing. This may take some time but if you dance it, the girls will come]

If you are feeling a bit nervous and don't really know how you should dance or worried about what people might say just think this to yourself, "If no one was around how would I dance to this song(and dance). If no one was around which moves would I attempt to do. [these moves are probably the ones were you are genuinely having the most fun and even if you mess them up people will still be able to see you having genuine fun, especially if you are willing to lightly laugh at yourself for even attempting that move] [Having fun is what attracts people]. Finally if you are scared shitless to try any of this, just tell yourself you are drunk. If you are worried that someone will make fun of your dancing [they wont] you can always just tell them "I'm drunk. Let me do my thing! Now join in or make some more space cause my moves are only going to get better" [projecting fun and not giving a fuck]"

For you SAP's out there you might get scared hearing people laugh around (oh gawd! they are laughing at me!) THEY ARE NOT LAUGHING AT YOU.

Anyways, once you own up that dance floor and you feel good about that last song, its time to make your move. Remember I said take note of the girls coming closer to you? Make your way behind any girl of your choosing and keep your badass dancing going, she will do the rest. If you feel like there are multiple girls that want to dance with you, bring them in for a group thing. [everyone just wants to have fun, you keep that fun going]

Anyways this has happened to me on more than a few occasions and is my usual way of getting to grind on girls. With that said, Wtf are you supposed to do when you are grinding on the girl, i never really know what i am doing.

TL;DR To scared to go grind on girls? Own the dance floor. Own it and just have fun. The girls will come to you. Once you see these girls come towards you, take your pick, go behind her and keep your dance going. Ta da.