I'm seeking comments. So far I've figured out a basic philosophy for my approach in general and I wanted to get opinions from the more experienced people here

So four themes coalesced in my mind when thinking about how to get women to want me.

1 If she feels safe with me she can express her femininity and open up to me. Also I'm not a dick to her friends or other people I'm not into

2 If she feels special because I've noticed things about her and approach her in a way that could only apply to her she feels like I see her for her and not just another pair of tits in a dress

3 If she feels my sexual desire for her she knows I'm not to be lumped in with the nice guys who fear to make a move and she can meet my sexual masculine energy with her own feminine energy

4 If she knows I have choices among women I can choose her and sweep her off her feet or else withhold my choice and get her to chase me, in order to sway my decision in her favor.

What am I missing here? Seems to me that everything else points to at least one of these factors. Little help here?