Greetings to everyone.

Intro

This is a little story from what I have noticed in my life.

I'm pretty new to seduction and there are billions of things about PUA/Seduction and I know nothing. Because I never thought about it (or didn't need it), I was always the guy who goes with the flow and there are some qualities I have as a character that I have never noticed.

I am 32 years old and the reason I am in Seduction now is because I really really need younger girls for something more serious and it's not about getting that one girl, there is no particular girl but I have the need and I'm in the search of finding some qualities of my "fantastic role model".

I live in Greece, I own a small Computer Store, I sell computer products and I offer my services as an IT Specialist and Web Development.

My store is located right across of an Elementary school, I like waking very early in the morning and I always open my store around 7.30am and I always have work to do.

All stores open after 9.00am and the classes always start at 8.15am.

I am on this neighborhood since the day I was born and I am always the "good kid", people know that I was always serious, honest and I was never after trouble and now I am known as "The good IT Support Guy"

The reason that I mentioned that I have been living for 32 years on the same neighborhood is because that no matter where you are from, no matter how much you have lived on the same place, there is always the concept of social proof.

No matter what you do, there will be always 1 person who will be talking about you. That person will talk to 2 people and those 2 people will talk to another 4 people, the power of two and people will talk about both the good and the bad things and that especially happens with women.

To the outside world, I am a business owner, who runs his own store, has 3 employees under him and have many co-workers outside of his business, for example I have an accountant, a lawyer, an electrician and so on and that gives me a Business Social Circle and that by default makes me an "Alpha Male".

In my world, the only things I'm interested in is about survival, pursuing my dreams and desires, living by myself, having my own house, being able to afford making a family in the future, having a gym membership, having a value for money car, my education, making my employees happy. In a few words I'm living a life of simplicity doing whatever makes me feel happy.

The reason I have said everything till now is because I also feel introverted, shy, a little bit of insecure and many other things like that but that doesn't mean I'm not getting laid or I have my own luck. I have luck and still get laid, remember that I'm the guy who goes with the flow and now here's the field report:

I open my own store every day at 7.30am, the parents of the kids and my neighbors know this because word travels fast and they always suggest my store, that gives them the opportunity to either come to my store before or after school starts before they go to their work or home chores.

In my life I have followed the following principles:

  • I am always honest
  • I don't care what people will say about me
  • I care about action and not talking.
  • If I don't deliver my promises such as meeting deadlines I always apologize and make compensations
  • My number one priority is about my customers and not after their money. This is how form trust, people pay me for my products and services, it's their money after all.
  • I always listen to their problems and I always find solutions.
  • I don't talk about others
  • and until recently I have been providing my services in my store and as well as in their space.

From the above list, the last two reasons is what enabled to have my own "field reports"

Unfortunately enough, there are many women who are divorced and have kids to look after and of course as you have guessed women still want to get laid.

They knew that I was providing on site service and there were many times, that many women would visit me, they would say something like "My desktop computer doesn't work anymore, can you please come at my place and fix it, I don't know what is wrong" and of course I was going in their place and instead of fixing their computers, they would appear suddenly in front of me, naked and kissing me.

There was no flirting involved or word games or stories or games or anything like that. Everything just happens, just like that and many times I was in a awkward situation where I had to deny sex, because I was not feeling comfortable or simply I didn't like the woman I was with.

And as for me, I cannot make a relationship with a divorced woman who already has kids, I want my own. I want to feel love, get into the game, flirt, get rejected and stop being the guy who goes with the flow. I have goals.

This is my own version of a "Field Report" I'm sure that it wasn't what you expected but what I would like to mention is that you can still get laid over and over again for simply looking after your life, following your passions and owning a small business and all of what I have mentioned gives you by default many values.

Nice to meet everyone and I hope that this thread proved to be useful by someone with a different respective of life.

Many thanks.