Bf complications

HunQ · 2016-08-30T07:31:00+00:00

I've been in the same situation as you were not a very long time ago. I had the opportunity to get my first girlfriend when a friend had trouble with her boyfriend and seeked advice, consolidation but also a possible alternative to her boyfriend. We were chatting more regularly and went out eating and such. We payed for each other's food, she clinged to my arm etc. That stuff that tells you, she is interested.

I knew about her situation and chose another path.

I chose to respect her boyfriend although I knew almost nothing about him. Desiring another man's woman felt wrong but I did not close that door entirely . Instead I left both options (me or him) open and made her choose. I said she should reevaluate the whole thing and think about her faults because she was at fault and her boyfriend was not, another reason why I chose to do this. I spent a lot of time with her being what a real friend should do instead of being a snitch. Eventually she got her shit together and saved the relationship. I was sad but st the same time I was happy for her. She told me not to be sad and I knew she appreciated my efforts. I pretended as if it was not anything severe. That is what I think a real man should do.

That is just my opinion, you can agree or disagree with it but imagine yourself being on the boyfriend's situation once and live with your decisions.

mad-n-fla · 2016-08-30T05:37:49+00:00

Simple; do not talk about her bf.

/Tell her to speak to you of trivia, news or anything but her bf, make it a deal with her to keep her mind on better things.

rmbarnes · 2016-08-30T09:46:56+00:00

Go out and cold approach, meet new women. Stop 'crushing' on girls.

Title	Bf complications
Author	Slashkid4
Upvotes	1
Comments	4
Date	August 30, 2016 5:30 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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