TL;DR I'm tired of running into women (always virgins) who want to wait for the right time or who are not ready yet, what should I do?

Longer version:

I love sex! I think most probably you do too. Until recently (1.5 yrs back) I was a virgin mostly because of high standards and low social skills (NUMB3RS anyone?). High standards because I don't want to settle for someone who isn't comparably as good as I am (not necessarily in the things I'm good at but in general). Then I met an HB9, gave her the V card on our first date, got in a roller coaster ride with her for 9 months at the end of which I had to end it. It did help me with my social skills though. Now, in the last 7 months I've met 4-5 HB 6-7s who I'm frankly not interested in getting in a relationship with but wouldn't mind jumping on. The issue is that we always end up in the bed all horny and then when the time comes for moving on from base 3 to strike a home run it mostly ends up in a sentence that looks a lot like "I'm not ready yet"s ugly twin. Frankly at this rate I might get to 72 virgins before I reach heaven.

On the flip side, all the HB 8-10s I meet have a boyfriend. Online dating doesn't work much because I think my charm only comes out in person and I'm either not good at marketing myself online or get swiped left due to stereotypes.

I feel so exhausted by all this now that I feel like giving up all these pursuits and using that time also for self-development. Questions for you guys: - What should I do with these women I keep meeting? - If the answer is run in the opposite direction, how do I quickly predict the future and save myself all this time? - Where the hell are all the single HB 8-10s? - Is there any other question I should be asking you or myself?

It might help to know that I live in a country where women are super conservative. I do think about relocating a lot but it might have a huge impact on my career.