So I wanted to share a little something I’ve noticed today. See I’m still fairly new to this sub and other subs on Reddit relating to attracting women. But even with the short time I’ve been reading I’ve picked up and managed to correct where I’ve been going wrong in the past.

See, I could find girls to date and such in the past before I found these subs… but it was rare and often a struggle.

The rare part is still an occurrence though for me personally since it’s not my goal at the moment to get a girlfriend as I’m focusing on “sorting my shit out”

I just wanted to say, even though I’m not actively approaching women. I have noticed how much of an impact my general body language and image I’m projecting has made. (image I’m projecting meaning “vibe” I give off.)

..Allow me to elaborate.

See before, I lacked confidence and self esteem (still do) and it showed in how I portrayed myself when out and about, think typical shoulders hunched down, head down, not looking at people and so on.

Now though? Complete 180.

I’m at the point the concise effort to purposely do these things like keep my head up, eye contact, shoulders back etc etc are ALMOST completely natural to me.

The fact I can lock eyes with a women in the supermarket and not look away first or do a big goofy smile has dramatically increased the amount of looks I get from women.

I know this means nothing in the grand scheme of things as getting looks isn’t a guarantee of success, but it’s a major win for me because before, I never used to get even half as much attention from females.

I feel guilty a little about it at times, because at the gym this chick was checking me out hard when her boyfriend was right there. Not to mention today this beauty did it twice in the supermarket when her boyfriend was with her too.

I’m an average looking dude and balding too, so if I can do it. You can aswell!

I just thought I’d share and re-affirm the power of body language and looking confident and in control like a boss, even if on the inside you aren’t.

Thanks for reading.