Every date I go on I give the boyfriend experience. I don't hold them up on a pedestal but I do open the doors and guide them as we walk down busy streets. Not that I have intentions of not wanting to date them further but I want to date to see my options. If I like a girl I stop all dating except with them.

Why is it that after the first date or two most of the woman get jealous? That I cannot have the time I need to evaluate my wants and needs in a partner and see if they are right for me. And I expect the same.

I don't text them nonstop, compliment them when they seek validation. When I plan a date I ask them to dress accordingly. I'll give them a hint of what type of dress fits the evening and I'll let them know how I will be dressing. I expect to be spoken to a certain way. Proper and not in the context of a "buddy". But I do like to have fun conversations with joking and nonjudgmental tones. Now don't take the context of me asking them to not speak to me a certain way as controlling. I don't want to be called pal, buddy or bro. That can be done joking yes but only at a later level of communication.

Are woman desperate to settle down just as us men are? Does it drive a woman crazy that I stall emotional availability on certain levels. I'm not easy to get but once you got me I'm 100% committed.