So there's this girl I work with. I'm gonna spare all the details but I find her very attractive and we talk a lot at work, text and flirt a bit but she has a bf, but she never met the guy. One time a customer called us out for flirting and the other day we were on break together and she has a little bit of anxiety so she prefers to sit in one room but I prefer to sit in the other and since everyone sits in the other she prefers to avoid it. So what I did was I asked her to come sit with me and she was like no i wanna sit here, so I grabbed her arm(not aggressively)and basically dragged her into the other room still attached to her chair and tucked her into the table. It worked and she said I can't believe you just did that in a light humor based voice. I'm sure i'm in the friend zone but I feel I could get out of it because after being on this sub for awhile iv'e been noticing more results. Now i'm not sure if I have oneitis with her, because I can see myself going after other girls, but I do find her very attractive and I want her. Awhile ago she told me shes "in love" with her bf. She's 17, never had a bf before him and never once met him. I believe she's in love with the idea of being with him. Should I just forget about her or be alpha as fuck, show her i'm dating material and see what happens?