Can't close! Need help!

AmateurSanta · 2012-05-06T18:06:45+00:00

You miss 100 % of the shots you don't take.

2012-05-06T13:24:24+00:00

Outcome independence, dude.

It doesn't matter if your friends are there, or you are on national television. Noone in this world has never not been rejected. It's nothing to be afraid of.

Practice being rejected and savour that pain. Because after you have done it a few times, it is gone. Almost forever.

looksfamiliar · 2012-05-06T12:07:32+00:00

"What if she rejects me in front of all my friends?"

Do it without your friends there.

If they think rejection is a big deal, then they aren't taking chances and are missing out.

readsyouruserhistory · 2012-05-06T16:52:19+00:00

If you don't try you are already rejected.

breadrising · 2012-05-07T02:28:07+00:00

Let's just say, I know all about the cold feet thing. Even when a girl would be literally rubbing my leg and begging me with her eyes, I'd still get cold feet and end up leaving or not escalating until she finally got bored.

Best thing that helped me: stop giving a fuck.

It took some practice, but finally once I just stopped caring and decided to just ride the wave, the nights improved instantly.

lycosa2008 · 2012-05-06T13:03:51+00:00

if your trying to close and your friends bag you out, even though they didn't have the balls to approach her anyways..

sounds like a bunch of afcs anyways. try to not give a damn and go for it!

Attila_TheHipster · 2012-05-07T00:52:08+00:00

Rest assured, if your game is what you say it is (except for the part where you say you're building up attraction yet don't know if she really is showing signs of attraction), you're friends will be looking at you enviously.

az3r132 · 2012-05-06T14:08:40+00:00

What just close pussy and if she says no keep pushing it until she gets really mad, calls a bouncer/ pulls out pepper spray / calls cops. It never gets to that by the way. Check this out. Also learn to deal with rejection. Its an experience thing but after the first 3 you are set for life and don't give a fuck. (Thats what highschool was for by the way)

Title	Can't close! Need help!
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Upvotes	14
Comments	11
Date	May 6, 2012 11:42 AM UTC (14 years ago)
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