Not sure if this is the right subreddit but whenever someone likes me men or women and I also like them, I suddenly can't commit to a relationship. I feel as if I can't be myself and think of ways how a relationship will constrict myself. It doesn't help that the only time I feel safe and actually interested in a person is after I've been friends with them. I feel like I'm going to end up alone cause I can't imagine a future with someone.