Choosing Signals and intimidated signals

Whether you're out there "in the trenches", in the office, or just at the local grocery store... they're ~~hopefully~~ watching.

Who are "they"!???!

"They" are the female gender aka the ones we're trying to ~~beg-n-plead~~ seduce. Some of us are hella successful,zero some of us struggle, and others...dont even have a clue if we're even attractive to women. Below is a list of choosing signals and intimidated signals that may help you to better determine when a chick is checking you, interested in you, maybe even thinks you're so attractive it's intimidating. This WILL help increase your success rate with women.

Choosing Signals:

She touches her hair, she gets a wided(excited) eyed look when she sees you, she adjusts her clothes while smiling at you, she moves slowly towards you while smiling at you(or rapidly glancing at you), she says stuff like "I'm just all in your way" while smiling at you, she hovers in your vicinity, she keeps "popping up" on your isle, she gets googly eyes, she touches you unnecessarily, she laughs at sxxt(even corny sxxt) you say like it's comedy gold.

Intimidated signals:

She moves slowly towards you while looking nervous AF, she tilts her body sideways and can't maintain eye contact, she gets super quiet in your presence while looking nervous, she spots you then INSTANTLY looks straight down(or both down and sidewards), she walks out of the area with nervous body language, she gets deer-in-headlights eyes(without smiling) at the sight of you.

Feel free to add any YOU'VE personally experienced.

[–]ULminimalist1980 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

[–]RedEyeBlackEye1[S] 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

[–]ULminimalist1980 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago* (4 children) | Copy Link

I've had hot women give up and stare at me, locking eyes for 20s or more, and I ignored it. I had my physics tutor study quantum mechanics, just to tutor me in pchem 2, when she hadn't even taken the class(I asked and she told me). She had the schrodinger equation on a tightass tshirt stretched across her huge tits, pointed at it with both fingers, and I still didn't get it.

Every chemistry class I had, and I was a materials chem major, I had a really hot woman as my lab partner. Hot women sat next to me in every one of my classes. I figured it was just a coincidence.

I never got it until I dated a sociopath and healed. I remember asking my calc tutor if she needed hair ties because her hair kept falling in her face. She was available to tutor me after class every single time, no matter how busy they were. She waited in their computer room and came out every time I started putting my books down. I thought she was just really nice and liked math.

The one at Autozone that helped me for an hour, got me all the right tools, while I fixed my car in the parking lot. Just thought she was a really good employee.

All the girls over the years asking me if I needed rides home after class. I had no idea. I missed all these for 20 years, and I feel deep regret, because I could have fucked all of them.

I'm decent looking, but not hot enough to get that much attention from 8's and 9's regularly. I'm also 41 now. I work out regularly, though.

https://i.imgur.com/dM9UBJi.jpg

One thing that fucked me all these years was I thought there's no way girls that hot would be interested in me.

[–]RedEyeBlackEye1[S] 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago* (3 children) | Copy Link

Some days, I still deal with the chicks (usually below 40yr old, 4-6 looks range, and VERY insecure) who dodge, avoid, show intimidated body language, and ignore me CONSTANTLY anytime I'm at work or out in public. It will mess with your head to the point that you gotta REMIND YOURSELF of what you actually look(and masculine behavior) like so your realize they're only doing it out of insecurity...or ego. Especially, when you see a fineaxx chick right after WHO ACTUALLY starts throwing choosing signals or acting very submissive in your presence. If not, you'll have that nagging thought that "if MOST of these other chicks treated me like they didn't even want to look in my direction(or be anywhere near my vicinity) why would this show stopper chick want me?

Positive affirmations help ALOT in these types of situations, homie.

[–]ULminimalist1980 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

It's weird as fuck. All the women over the years that tried to fuck me were super hot. Well, at least by my standards. Like no one would turn them down, I mean. I psyched myself out of the one I knew was interested, she was a server at the mexican restaurant near college, knew her 3 years, was like if hundreds of dudes came in here weekly, there's no way she would choose me, right? But she did, and I fucked it up because I misunderstood what she said.

And now I'm having zero luck at all, and getting more depressed thinking of all the ones I could have had over the years. School starts in a couple months, and being back in college will help, I think. Always met a lot of women in my classes, though I never did anything.

It sounds stupidly arrogant to say I didn't know how hot I was, but based on the quality, amount, and such of hot women constantly approaching me, that had to be the case. These girls had options, and they chose me.

Shit makes me want to eat a shotgun, the more I keep thinking about it. It's a vicious cycle of neediness and depression.

[–]RedEyeBlackEye1[S] 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

[–]ULminimalist1980 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Title	Choosing Signals and intimidated signals
Author	RedEyeBlackEye1
Upvotes	7
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Date	October 30, 2021 11:44 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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Who are "they"!???!

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