So ever since I've gotten back to school, I haven't gone to a single college party and not gotten at least a make out, but I've only actually gotten it in twice. Here's what I usually do: Go there, start dancing and having fun, see a cute girl, and start dancing and grinding with her. If she's feeling it then I keep dancing for a few minutes before I spin her around so I get the eye contact going, and then before I know it, boom. Makeout. Easy. But most times after doing that for a while the girl dips and says something like "I need to find my friends". Now my gut is telling me to just take her somewhere the music's not as loud and actually talk to her and try to establish some legitimate connection, but at the same time I know that she's not at a party to talk about school and other boring shit. Maybe I'm just a shitty kisser?