I see all these posts about how shit went wrong and asking how you could have done better... I also see all these field reports with no follow up... The biggest thing I see is that people are afraid of doing something wrong and making a mistake... After going through this sub.... I have done things I am not exactly proud of... Do I regret it? No not at all... Only in putting yourself in awkward situations do you truly know who you are... In all the field reports all I read is insecurity and it frustrates me! I am not that attractive and I had sex with some random stranger off of tinder just last weekend! If you want to get laid do not improve yourself... Destroy who you are now and become a better person. As the great Tyler Durden would say, "self improvement is masterbation but self destruction." make mistakes the friends you have will still like you! Be the maker of awkward situations! They are way more fun to talk about than the time you went to the bar and got this one hot chick's number. There is no such thing as a normal time you just hooked up with a chick make mistakes and have fun! I'm drunk peace out and happy hunting