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[–]Endoss 2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
Dude, Marla hasn't been into you romantically for 7 years. That's not suddenly going to change, especially since she's signalling pretty hard that she wants to keep it platonic by inviting Lara out every time you meet. Find someone else to put the moves on before you ruin your nearly decade long friendship with this girl.
[–]Ballazabula 9 years ago [recovered] (6 children) | Copy Link
I already thought about that, but here some things that make me wonder about the possibilities:
She told me various times she strongly believes the man needs to move first.
She told me that she wants to try new things.
She told me, in another context, that "things are different now that when we were teens"
Other than this, the thing is that there is basically no backdraw to trying. I already tried several times in the past, i stopped trying when she found a boyfriend. Our friendship always survived, so i guess that if i try i could just talk to her and keep our friendship intact.
[–]Endoss 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Okay, then plan an evening date that you would both enjoy, take her on the date, and try to kiss her.
[–]Ballazabula1 point 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Thank you.
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[–]Ballazabula 9 years ago [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link
I don't like he last line. I tried that in the past but it just ended up with me not enjoying the time with the other girl, something i don't like.
[–][deleted] 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Actually i'm trying to pick up other two girls right now other than her. I just don't like the mindset "do it to make her jealous". I'm just trying with them 3 because there is nothing wrong until it gets serious with another girl.
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