Just wanted to throw this out there as inspiration. I just broke up with a live-in girlfriend of 9 months and yesterday was her first day out of the house. I didn't really feel like going out but I showered up and dressed well because, hey, who knows?

I met up with a friend for drinks on a whim and ended up hanging with his workout group (crossfit types) for 3 hours and one of the most gorgeous women I have ever seen was with them.

I was polite but essentially ignored her advances all night and engaged in light playful teasing in response to some things she said (she insisted on telling her life story and repeatedly sought validation).

Eventually it was time for me to go and she asked if she could Please put her number in my phone and asked multiple times if I'd be out over the weekend because we just had to hang out again.

I used my body language to convey confidence and focused on having a good time (dancing badly as I cruised the bar and bantering with strangers) and I had a phenomenally sexy girl who seems like a lot of fun begging to see me again.

Tl;DR - Get out as much as you can, Be confident (you're the prize), and Don't automatically swoon over a girl giving you attention. Just be your awesome self and enjoy life as much as possible - it's infectious.