Okay so I'm a 20 year old dude. I've been out the game for a while and been really lacking confidence, I feel like when I'm drinking and a lil drunk I can approach more (cause of the dulled inhibitions )but I don't wanna be that guy (you know that drunk guy who picks up females).

Then day before yesterday I read an article on Pinterest and it spoke about confidence and it basically said something along the lines that if you fake it eventually you'll believe it. so I decided to basically take this idea and applied elsewhere. I'm a field hockey player so confidence is also in your game when it comes to things like traveling and carrying the ball and things like that. Similac of confidence basically was affect my hockey as well and so I decided to apply that idea that I read on Pinterest in my hockey and I had the best practice ever one of them basically. What I'm basically trying to get is with this idea or this notion that I read will it improve my game in terms of females because it is has impacted my hockey so will it affect other aspects of my life? Do you think it be a good idea, of basically fake the confidence and eventually it will come? but my concern is will females be able to see that I'm faking It?