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I second this. Just introduce yourself, and after she does something attractive, say something lowkey like "wow you're cute!" Then you can flirt freely
/r/seduction09/06/17 06:33 AM
4

Stop blaming your lack of self esteem on being an introvert.
/r/seduction09/06/17 02:45 AM
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Anything from rsdfreetour
/r/seduction20/05/17 04:13 AM
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Decide for yourself if it's within your morals.
/r/seduction20/05/17 04:12 AM
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Do what you want to do. If you wanna text her, than do it. If you don't want to because you'll get needy, then don't. I personally built a real strong relationship over text. As long as you keep living your life instead of making her the center of your world, you'll be fine
/r/seduction24/04/17 12:47 AM
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Say a smartass comment out loud so she can hear it to break the ice. Then address her personally.
/r/seduction23/04/17 04:11 AM
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rsdfreetour makes great in-depth content you can listen to in the background. Changed my life.
/r/seduction21/04/17 06:58 AM
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Just admit you're fucking with her and wait for an opportunity to tease her about something concrete she says or does
/r/seduction14/04/17 09:23 AM
0

Hold frame. It doesn't have to be logical. After a "but I'm not snobby", for example, you could shoot a mischievous look and say something like "you sureee?". Act like your reality is stronger even if she's got logical proof.
/r/seduction14/04/17 08:16 AM
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Nope. I have acne and am a 6 physically. Still have a really hot girlfriend. It's about finding girls who see beyond the surface level.
/r/seduction08/04/17 06:10 PM
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Text game works if you're inherently interesting and funny. Just keep it low investment, flirt, and be cool
/r/seduction03/04/17 03:14 AM
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Only if you're sure there's enough attraction already. I met current girlfriend via cold approach and built 90% of the attraction over snapchat/text. A lot of hot girls are always objectified and just want someone to appreciate them as human beings, so connecting emotionally and mentally goes a long way. As you collect more reference experiences, you'll start to get a feel for when she's gonna be receptive to your advances and calibrate accordingly
/r/seduction03/04/17 03:08 AM
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Text game isn't terrible. Just build more attraction and comfort in the initial interaction or even in the text convo. Patience is key.
/r/seduction03/04/17 12:03 AM
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Do you, dude. I love emojis and use them regularly
/r/seduction03/04/17 12:01 AM
2

Don't front to cover insecurities, be genuine.
/r/seduction25/03/17 01:11 AM
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No, self-awareness trumps a lot of negative traits. It's not ideal, but she'd notice you were nervous in that scenario anyway
/r/seduction24/03/17 07:47 AM
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Julien and Tyler have been hitting on the topic of lifting state permanently recently. The best two instructors by far, imo.
/r/seduction21/03/17 07:36 AM
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I start convos off their stories most of the time if the streak picture isn't interesting. Streaks are usually just something to keep her thinking about you at least once a day. And dude if she's sending you provocative pictures, don't be afraid to show interest. "Ngl, that's pretty hot" or something like that
/r/seduction17/03/17 07:09 AM
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Acknowledge the elephant in the room. "I know we barely know each other, but it'd be fun to go to prom together!"
/r/seduction16/03/17 08:36 AM
1

Get snapchat. I went for a snapchat close on an 8 and am now dating her. As long as you keep flirting and being cool, it can work. But only if you want to go through the relationship route. If you just want sex then move on
/r/seduction16/03/17 08:31 AM
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Intent is creepy when it's uncalibrated.
/r/seduction02/03/17 08:39 AM
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Show intent with your body language, then when you flirt verbally, make sure you say it in a cheeky/playful way
/r/seduction25/02/17 04:23 AM
2

Make jokes? Lol just have fun man
/r/seduction25/02/17 04:17 AM
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Yeah, similarly, I'm a big fan of RSD Tyler because everything he does is so smooth and natural in field but when you watch it back the subconscious technique he developed through the years is phenomenal
/r/seduction14/02/17 06:06 AM
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Nah I have to disagree as a 17 year old myself. Sometimes when you don't have the time to build up enough rapport it's better to get a snapchat instead of a number, and then build value through those interactions. Plus snapchat allows you to passively demonstrate value through your stories.
/r/seduction14/02/17 05:52 AM
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I do hope you realize RSDTyler has aspergers and is considered one of the best dating coaches in the world. If you don't approach, you won't improve. That's how you build social fluency. You can give up and never get a single woman, or you can keep pushing and give yourself a shot. And I know you don't want to give up, because you wouldn't be on this subreddit otherwise. If you want it, you've got to find a way to do it.
/r/seduction14/02/17 05:38 AM
2

Either you gonna whine, or you climb; I choose the latter
/r/seduction14/02/17 05:19 AM
6

He hates outer game. I am more of an inner game/natural guy myself, but sometimes you need to work on some outer game (meaning push-pull, takeaways, etc) to really show your inner game and maximize your potential.
/r/seduction14/02/17 05:13 AM
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Usually pain from rejection is caused by two things: scarcity mindset, or low self-esteem. In your case, it seems to be the latter. You take rejections too personally instead of seeing pickup as a process of learning a skillset. Keep pushing on and eventually you'll be forced to value yourself instead of depending on external validation.
/r/seduction06/02/17 04:17 AM
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As much as you can get away with in the situation. In a club you could just use the claw and open with a hug while in daygame you'd have to be more subtle and start with the hands/shoulders
/r/seduction03/02/17 04:14 AM
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Learn to read social cues. Normally if you make her laugh a bit she'll loosen up. Compliments are good, but only if you're saying it without expectation of getting anything back for it. Compliment because you feel like it, not because you want to impress her. You could throw in a bit of kino for more intent
/r/seduction03/02/17 02:36 AM
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Just roll up your sleeves and do it. Once the first one is done, it becomes a lot easier. Don't worry about the outcome.
/r/seduction30/01/17 04:35 AM
2

Try meditating man, RSDTyler said it dramatically increased his results
/r/seduction29/01/17 11:34 PM
6

Dancing monkey syndrome. You're either trying too hard to get a reaction or you're not sexualizing and kinoing enough
/r/seduction28/01/17 09:05 PM
3

The difference is calibration. Knowing what a shit test no vs a real no is.
/r/seduction28/01/17 08:22 PM
3

It depends on your frame. If you're persistent from a non-needy frame that shows you believe in your own value and you're giving her another chance
/r/seduction28/01/17 08:22 PM
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Just use RSDTyler as an example
/r/seduction28/01/17 07:58 AM
5

Tyler games at clubs sober.
/r/seduction23/01/17 02:15 AM
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Lie down and imagine you're dead. Everything you've ever wanted, everything you loved. You have no choice but to let go. Then realize you have a second chance at all that. get up and jump and scream. You're alive. The chaos of life is magnificent compared to the silence and nothingness of death.
/r/seduction22/01/17 06:05 PM
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I'm also a relationship-oriented guy. My problems with one-itis disappeared once I got into a relationship that tanked quick after I got needy. Only after I got over it did I realize that the issue was my lack of sources of positive emotions outside of women, and scarcity mentality. Any positive reaction she has will have you hooked because you get so few of it. Just keep getting better at game, inner and outer, and you'll get more of those reactions easily
/r/seduction22/01/17 06:53 AM
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It's how you make a girl feel, not the things you use to make her feel attracted, that will make you successful. The fact that you mentioned these two things as things stopping you from being successful shows real confidence issues.
/r/seduction22/01/17 06:41 AM
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Genius. Also genuinely just wants to see us improve moreso than selling his products.
/r/seduction20/01/17 03:39 AM
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Because you're in high school. At most it'll last 2 years. If you can create attraction at ease then you'll be able to get a girlfriend anytime you want in college/ later life
/r/seduction18/01/17 06:26 PM
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I would work on your social circle game and building rapport/creating attraction more than getting a girlfriend if I were you
/r/seduction18/01/17 08:13 AM
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Yeah I've found that even self-deprecation comes off well when I'm in state, because it comes from a place where I don't care. Most of it is just social intelligence and calibration that you gain over time
/r/seduction18/01/17 08:09 AM
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It's kind of a loop. Outer game (not routines: those are useless, but some subtle/subconscious stuff like push-pull, kino, etc) can get you results that boost your inner game, but without inner game, outer game is useless and forced.
/r/seduction18/01/17 08:06 AM
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If you can make them smile and laugh, the only thing you need to flirt is a set of balls. You gotta unstifle yourself and say what you think. If you think she's cute? Tell her in a tongue-in-cheek way. It's just calibration and honesty
/r/seduction15/01/17 11:28 PM
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Way too overcomplicated imo
/r/seduction12/01/17 03:08 AM
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You need to Be the leader of the conversation Add casual flirtatious comments/teases Casual kino
/r/seduction08/01/17 08:01 AM
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Just watch the free videos on YouTube man. They have videos for literally everything. The long ones tend to be the best. Tyler does a good job keeping it entertaining, but you could listen to it like a podcast if you want to multitask as well. And don't be mistaken, experience is deifnitely most important
/r/seduction05/01/17 11:39 PM
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You could do gradual desensitisation for daygame. Break barriers step by step. For example, make eye contact with one girl, then make eye contact and smile, then make eye contact, smile, and say hi, then make a full approach.
/r/seduction05/01/17 01:52 AM
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They aren't different. RSD builds a man, not a mask. They teach you how to be an attractive man, and with time, it becomes natural. That's why their #1 advice is to go out. Yes, they do go into tactical outer game skills, but that's just to supplement your growing inner game. Think of your game as a growing tree. Inner game is the trunk, but outer game is the stick you tie the trunk to to ensure it is growing straight. You need both inner and outer game. Inner game is the basis of truly believin…
/r/seduction05/01/17 01:50 AM
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Nope, don't really buy it
/r/seduction04/01/17 09:02 PM
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If she calls you out you could just admit you were bullshitting and just wanted to talk to her
/r/seduction02/01/17 11:52 PM
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The Way of the Superior Man is solid, but I prefer watching videos from RSD (especially) Tyler for most of my theory
/r/seduction02/01/17 11:48 PM
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I agree, you have to go out and embarrass yourself in order to actually not give a fuck. My main point was that a lot of people self-affirm without anything to back it up and it's a weak and fake confidence
/r/seduction02/01/17 10:05 PM
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Have read it. I'm in a pretty good place right now with my inner game but thanks for the suggestion!
/r/seduction02/01/17 10:03 PM
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If you want to date attractive women, don't do online dating.
/r/seduction02/01/17 04:04 AM
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Contentment comes from within, not from a woman, not from anything in society. The only way to feel truly fulfilled is embracing the ups and downs of chasing goals. Also, you have to be congruent in your beliefs and lifestyle, and girls who fit into your life that you'll actually want to be with will come
/r/seduction29/12/16 08:35 AM
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RSD Tyler is autistic. Didn't stop him from becoming one of the biggest pimps in the world. You'll pick it up eventally man
/r/seduction29/12/16 08:29 AM
0

Sounds like depression to me, but I'm no psychologist
/r/seduction24/12/16 06:46 PM
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/r/socialskills
/r/seduction18/12/16 07:32 AM
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A few things You might be waiting too long to make a move. I can relate as one of my big issues is not making a move until I have too much investment. Accept the pain. Because every time you get rejected and pick yourself back up, you're gonna eventually realize that at the end of the day, you'll be okay. Yes it will hurt, yes it will destroy your ego. But take heart in knowing your pain will only help you grow. The road to getting where you want to be has speed bumps, so buckle up. Perhaps talk…
/r/seduction18/12/16 07:30 AM
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https://youtu.be/EzbDnWBgJEk Everything you need
/r/seduction18/12/16 07:24 AM
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This stems from self-esteem issues then. You don't feel like you're good enough for attractive girls. I'm gonna emphasize investing in yourself
/r/seduction16/12/16 06:59 AM
1

Shoulder packing. http://scoobysworkshop.com/shoulder-packing/
/r/seduction16/12/16 05:41 AM
3

You can be a social introvert. Those aren't mutually exclusive.
/r/seduction16/12/16 05:17 AM
2

I agree, you look like a solid 7-8. What you need is to improve game.
/r/seduction07/12/16 01:14 AM
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https://markmanson.net/passion
/r/seduction04/12/16 09:20 AM
1

Bud, it's only as awkward as you make it. Worst case scenario, she breaks the eye contact. You just need to own the fact that you were staring at her and assume attraction
/r/seduction03/12/16 09:20 AM
1

It's hard as hell building attaction through online conversation. I suggest you find something you both like doing through natural conversational flow and asking her to do that with you. But dude gaming via DM is always gonna have a terrible success rate
/r/seduction01/12/16 08:00 AM
2

don't just act like you're not needy, don't be needy at all
/r/seduction22/11/16 05:58 AM
2

You just need to explore different hobbies. There's always something out there for everyone
/r/seduction22/11/16 05:56 AM
1

The reason you hate everything is because you're upset with the way things are going. But that won't change unless you take action. So perhaps approaching a woman is hard for you, but you could ask them for the time or for directions first, and gradually build up to the point where conversation is effortless. You aren't a coward, you're just choosing coward behavior. You got this man
/r/seduction21/11/16 09:09 AM
1

Yes dude I fuckin love lifting
/r/seduction21/11/16 08:54 AM
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You have to accept and overcome your insecurities. That's the only way to have real confidence. Fake confidence is not sustainable.
/r/seduction17/11/16 05:30 AM
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Just thought of this earlier today. Good stuff.
/r/seduction12/11/16 08:52 PM
1

Mark Manson, 21 studios
/r/seduction12/11/16 10:47 AM
1

Stop thinking, just do
/r/seduction07/11/16 05:48 AM
1

Apparently grammar is not part of your curriculum lol
/r/seduction05/11/16 07:25 PM
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Skinny guys are okay. But being buff is better. Also, lifting weights is so beneficial not only for your appearance but also for your confidence. Highly suggest you at least give it a go
/r/seduction27/10/16 01:55 AM
1

It's the way you share about yourself. If you come off as needy and desperate then of course she will be put off. But that's where strong inner game comes from. Once you accept your flaws, they can't use it against you, and it just comes off as very matter-of-fact. On the contrary, acting all fake alpha is needy behavior in itself. If you're changing who you are to attract women, obviously that implies you don't like who you are enough. I suggest you read Models by Mark Manson.
/r/seduction18/10/16 06:26 AM
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Don't just come off as confident, actually be confident
/r/seduction10/10/16 05:42 AM
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https://markmanson.net/power-in-vulnerability
/r/seduction09/10/16 07:56 AM
1

"Only as hard as you're making me ;)"
/r/seduction20/09/16 09:21 AM
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Abundance mentality. Don't be scared to fuck up. You'll learn by doing
/r/seduction26/06/16 07:44 AM
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