I 20(M) am from Mississippi, and I've been single since the day I came out. So, I have never been in any relationship, so you can guess I'm basically still a baby. Recently, I wanted to be more outgoing and wanted to get me sum but be respectful at the same time. So, Becky worked with this co-worker (Gabby), who I went to school with from middle school to high school. I was trying to rizz her up, but she said no because I smoked weed at the time and never talked to me again. Recently, Becky told Gabby she knows someone who likes her, but would not tell her who it is, and for the person to text her, I was like " wtf at that point you might as well tell her it was me." But the thing is, I did not want to be in a long-term relationship with her, so I slid up on her and told her my situation and said that" I ain't gonna be here in a couple months" and asked her if she wanted to be in a casual relationship. She said she was down, and I was surprised myself. I ain't gonna lie, I consider myself chopped because I ain't never been approached nor complimented my whole life. On a scale ranging from 1 -10, I'll give myself a 4 or 5.

Usually, when I talk to someone, I can tell if they want something. You know what, scratch that, I am about the dumbest person alive. I've had three chances to get laid, but the thing is, I never read the room right, or I didn't see the hints. So, what I'm trying to say is I really cannot tell if someone wants something unless they tell me straight up. back to the story

So we're talking, but the thing is, I cannot read her or try to understand what she wants. To give y'all some context clues about her from what I've seen, she has never been in a relationship, and she's about as awkward as they come, or she has trouble expressing herself. The best way I can describe her is that she is alone, yet at the same time, she is social with another female. Becky told me she gave off sus vibes, but I honestly don't know. We have been texting, and I've been trying to get her to open up, but she keeps her responses short. Recently, I told her what she wanted, but then she asked me when I am free. I was like wth I'm so confused.

So, basically, I'm just confused and need your advice, regardless of who it is. However, it would help a lot if I could get advice from both points of view.