Hi, had a girl sleeping on my couch for two nighta but messed it up. First evening was great we connected and the sexual tension was present. But i did not do anything about it. Second day obviously she was turned off, even more so because i was caring in ways I'd rather not get into. Too kind and caring. How do i get back from it ? From, her wanting me, to her not wanting. How do i get back to the first night?