Over the past month and a half or so there's been this new girl hanging out with my group of friends with whom I party with. I've had the pleasure of meeting and becoming acquainted with her. She's very kind, smart, athletic oh and she's drop dead gorgeous. Just the other day at a party we really started to hit it off. I mean, we've talked before and whatnot but this time the connection was sooooo strong and almost overwhelming. We clicked over a bunch of things but mostly that she does BJJ and I've wrestled my whole life (maybe we should bedwrestle) but anyways I digress. I haven't had a girlfriend or taken interest in investing time with a girl in over 2 years, since my junior year in highschool. The reason being was that I was emotionally an idiot back then and I've needed time to mature. I'm not afraid of takinf her out a few times but something about her just stands out so much to me and I can't help but to want to act on it. Here's where it get kind of tricky for me. During this party she left with a friend of mine to go drop off another buddy and come back, on the way to drop off the homie she couldn't stop talking about me, according to my friends in the car. However, I'd almost feel guilty to act on her because one of those people she was with is her ex BF who she takes little interest in anymore, you know kinda like "besties", and this guy....is my cousin. What do I do reddit? I want to go up and ask him first if he minds me taking her out but I'm not sure if that'll work and if he'll get mad. I love my family but damn, this girl is fucking fantastic!

Edit: so i talked to my cousin last night at a 4th of July party after playing some BP and I brought up that I was diggin his ex.... All I have to say is he is the chillest mother fucker I know! Love you cuz!