Dancing

I have made a point over the past few months to study picking up girls. This isnt for the sole purpose to sleep with lots of women but to learn more about myself as a person. Tonight I had a breakthrough in dancing in the club. I'll tell you about my experiences and hopefully you can all learn from it.

First of all im considered a good looking guy. In my Tims im probably around 5 9, 5 10, I do bodybuilding and I dress well. I simply take care of myself you know?

But looks arent everything. The key factor is to project energy into your enviorment and to remain aloof to the surroundings. What I mean by this is to simply dance without a care in the world. Dance for your own self amusment and to have fun. By doing this you are adding to the positive energy in the enviorment. People want to be around that positive energy and they become attracted to it when it is presented.

So for the example. I am at the club with my brother and friends dancing. I have my eyes closed, am smiling and just moving to the beat of the music. Im lost in it and having the time of my life. Before I know it im locking eyes with a girl who has danced closer to then in front of me. We begin to do the whole grind dance thing, and im still having my own fun. I dont care that shes there. Im just enjoying life. So after around 15 minutes she ends up leaving. I continue to dance for my own self amusment. Before Iknow it another girl has begun to dance against me. I let the whole grind thing happen and we are making out in minutes.

Thing is if I was seeking the approval of others and dancing meekly I would not have had women approach me. Hope this was at least a little helpful. :)