Alright so my friend and I are going to a Steve Akoi/Lil Jon show tomorrow. And while im obviously there for the music, I want to take this as a chance to kill some approach anxiety, something I suffer terribly from. Im assuming that many of these girls will be rolling or drunk so I dont think approaching them should as difficult as compared to a bar.

Because they are all under the influence, I was gonna go with some direct openers such as "You're cute, lets dance."

My big question is how to dance at this concert? I know how to grind, but would that be acceptable here? Im not going to go up to random girls and grind up them because that is creepy. But if they do say yes, do I just extend the hand and bring her into a grinding position? Most EDM concerts ive seen footage of consisted of people jumping up and down.