First of all sorry if my English isn't perfect not a native speaker and it is written on a mobile phone.

So about 4 weeks ago I met this girl. I got to know her. We went on a few dates nothing special. About 2 weeks later we were all alone at her place and things happend. I fell in love with her she said that she wasn't ready for a relationship yet.

Now the real problem is in these 4 weeks I also got to know her friends (female and male) and I like to hang out with her friends and they also with me. I get invited all the time.

9 out of 10 times I'm there she is also there. Every time I think everything is over I still feel down because I still have feeling for her.

So today we talked a little over text and I asked do you still like me or not? Her responds was : I do not know

My question is. Should I get rid of my new friends. Is she using me as back-up?

P.S I know it sounds like Oneitis because it is. And I hate it.