This week I’m reposting my 7 days to success with girls and dating course right here for you guys to benefit from. If you want to follow along and grab any nuggets of info you find useful, then be my guest, the more the merrier.
Day 0 - Introduction to the course
Day 1 - What girls love and hate in a guy
Day 2 - How to be more attractive to girls
Day 3 - Girls won’t want you if you suck up to them
Day 4 - How to never run out of things to say to a girl
DAY 5 - How to approach girls on the street
DAY 6 - Tips for your Tinder profile
DAY 7 - Fixing your negative points & becoming your ideal self
Anyway, the following is a quick summary of the video above. For more depth watch the video.
SAMPLE NEGATIVE TRAITS AND HOW THEY CAN BE RESOLVED
IF YOU CARE TOO MUCH ABOUT WHAT OTHER PEOPLE THINK
Remember that everyone’s scared and looking for guidance, not just you. Also realise that even though some people won’t like you if you choose to boldly be yourself, you’ll replace them with some of the best friends you’ve ever known.
IF YOU’RE SCARED TO BE SEXUAL
Remember that girls want you to escalate and will lose respect for you if you don’t.
IF YOU’RE TOO IN YOUR OWN HEAD
Try meditation - watch comedy films - pay attention to your surroundings - take up physical shit - play sports.
IF YOU’RE SCARED TO APPROACH GIRLS
Realise that they want you to approach them and most girlfriends I’ve had bragged to me when they were approached - Make friends with a guy who’s either good with girls or wants to be and learn from/with him.
IF YOUR CONVERSATIONS ARE BORING
Practice chatting shit to yourself.
IF YOU’RE CAUTIOUS
Set yourself small and measurable tasks - expand slowly but surely.
IF YOU’RE SOCIALLY UNCALIBRATED
Fuck up more and learn from your mistakes.
IF YOU CAN’T HOLD EYE CONTACT
Practice spending a whole day never breaking eye contact first.
IF YOU’RE INSECURE ABOUT YOUR LOOKS
Hit the gym, improve your diet, improve your style.
IF YOU CAN’T HANDLE STRESSFUL SITUATIONS
Expose yourself to them.
IF YOU NEED ALCOHOL TO OPERATE
Wean yourself off it slowly.
IF YOU’RE NOT ASSERTIVE
Believe in what you have to say - journal daily to get to know yourself fully.
IF YOU’RE BAD AT TELLING STORIES
Study standup comedians.
IF YOU’RE INCONSISTENT
Know why it’s important for you to do the thing that you’re inconsistent with. Give as many solid reasons as possible so the idea of procrastinating seems disgusting to you.
BECOMING YOUR IDEAL SELF
Whenever you do something, ask yourself if it’s something your ideal self would do. If not, then don’t do it.
SAMPLE CHARACTER TRAITS OF AN IDEAL SELF
WANT TO BE CONFIDENT AND ASSERTIVE
Push your comfort zone constantly.
WANT TO BE ELOQUENT
Read and write more.
WANT TO BE BRAVE
Start doing the right thing no matter how scared you are.
WANT TO BE MORE SOCIAL
Look for opportunities to talk to people and embrace them. Join clubs, go to bars on your own, and basically do whatever you can to meet new people.
FINDING YOUR IDEAL GIRLS
(Note that you also need to think about what your ideal girl wants because if that’s not you, you’re gonna have some trouble)
IF YOU LIKE FIT AND GOOD LOOKING GIRLS
Go to gyms, dance studios, nightclubs, sports clubs etc.
IF YOU LIKE OPENMINDED GIRLS
Try hippie festivals like Boom or Burning Man.
IF YOU LIKE FUNNY GIRLS
Go to comedy clubs and Improv acting classes.
HOMEWORK
Look at your list of negative points and work out how you’ll fix them.
Look at the characteristics of your ideal self and work out how you’ll develop them.
Look at your ideal girl and work out whether or not she’d want you or your ideal self. If not then either yourself change accordingly or go after different girls.
Look at the traits of your ideal girls and ask yourself where you’d need to go to meet them.
THAT’S ALL FROM ME, GUYS! THANKS A BUNCH FOR FOLLOWING THE COURSE.
Here’s today’s video
Here’s part 2 of the video
For more tips to help you generate a level of confidence that girls find magnetic, grab my free ebook 5 Keys To Unstoppable Confidence
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