Hey people. Looking for advice on keeping seduction up on a longer basis than just one night of sex. Lately I have been struggling to keep girls that I see long term potential seduced by me and excited to continue talking and going out.

One girl was met off a dating app, went on a date, and had sex at the end of the night. I enjoyed her personality and a day or two later began texting her more. Her verbage got really slow and stale so I stopped texting her. The end.

Next girl I met out at a bar in town. Hit it off went to multiple bars. Kissed a lot exchanged numbers and went our seperate ways. She texted me and we had good conversation and had plans to go out on a date. Something came up a few days later that made it not possible for her to make it we suggested a week later would work better. Again, our conversations began to degrate and again, the end.

These are a couple examples but truthfully this has been plaguing me for months now with about 10 women total. I want to know how to carry the spark further and ultimatley build a solidly lit fire of longevity. Please tell me your suggestions/findings of the best way to play the long game.