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what are the limits of seduction over text?

flying_balloon_

October 9, 2022

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Title	what are the limits of seduction over text?
Author	flying_balloon_
Upvotes	14
Comments	34
Date	October 9, 2022 3:25 PM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/xzoayw/what_are_the_limits_of_seduction_over_text/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/seduction/what-are-the-limits-of-seduction-over-text.1248655 https://theredarchive.com/post/1248655

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If Everytime you talk it usually takes a turn towards dirty talk or sexting of some nature then I would assume that’s the only intention and if you try and shut that down he stops replying then that’s usually a sign. I can’t lie sometimes I get into a state of mind where every match I get I’m only interested in sex and if they’re not into it then I’ll politely move on as not to waste either of our times but if I’m talking to someone and sex isn’t the only thing I care about then the conversation is generally geared towards how their day was, what their plans are for the night etc. You could also try and be direct and say you know I can see us being together (this really depends how long you’ve been taking as that can scare some weak men away commitment scares some guys) what are your intentions as I don’t want to waste my time or my money travelling to you if all you want is sex. Don’t waste your time on someone who doesn’t value yours!

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All depends for me personally I wouldn’t do long distance but if for whatever reason let’s say I match with someone who lives out of the country I would probably only want to sext/chat as I have no desire to leave my country. Visit? Sure but I’d be going into it with the mentality of this is just a fwb because if I’m not moving and they’re not moving then I wouldn’t invest any emotions as that’s to exhausting for a maybe. If we did however hit it off have a lot of interests in common etc then I would keep the friendship with the added benefit of when I’m in the mood I know there’s someone I can mess around with. If I was in your situation I would keep that door open but also look for someone locally that’s not such a challenge with a lot of unknowns with the understanding that If and when you find someone locally you actually want to have a relationship with that benefits part of the friendship Would have to come to an end and if that’s enough for them to ghost you then I think they valued the benefits part of the friendship more than you as a person. Fwb via text isn’t a bad thing it can be fun and exciting but be comfortable with your limits and let them know exactly how you feel and then the balls in their court not yours. Don’t emotionally invest in a maybe it’s so exhausting I’ve had fwb that are just friends now and the only thing that changed is the sex/sext/whatever has been removed and we’re both cool with it! Those people are hard to find tho 🤷🏻‍♂️

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