Women: If, where, and how would you like to be approached?

Altruistic-Collar105 · 2022-07-26T01:54:45+00:00

All women will be different. Some women like a forward guy, some like a man who is a great conversationalist to start something up and others may want to be the one approaching you. One thing that I think is important is that a woman never wants to deal with a guy who seems insecure. I’m sure the same goes for a woman. As soon as a woman detects that you’re worried, trying too hard and being inauthentic, it’s hard to like you because we don’t know who we’re supposed to like. Inauthenticity breeds subtle measures of deceit as well, even though well intentioned. Women do this too! Instead of just being you, you may say or do something you normally wouldn’t. Things don’t flow naturally, and the other person detects this energy so strong. This is usually what drives someone away, even if they find you attractive. They don’t want to assure and help you along to feel comfortable about being with them. They want someone who already is in a good enough place to be what they need. Insecurities also breed codependency because one person may have to overly assure the other or help them. This is an uneven power dynamic. If you’re too nervous to talk to this girl, so nervous in fact that you shake, you’re worried, you can’t eat. Something about it is wrong. You’ll know when something is right when you can be exactly who you are without reserve.

CocoBabeNYC · 2022-07-26T01:58:05+00:00

Dude stop listening to socially retarded people who want nothing more than to make you full of phobias and fears that they are themselves suffering from. Women don't get approached. Everybody is staring at their phones and waiting on someone to reply to their DMs. The only guys approaching are desperate losers hence it is what women are mostly exposed to. Just be a normal guy. Your job as a man is to defeat your fears and take what you want.

TooMuchJibberish · 2022-07-26T03:44:13+00:00

The internet and many women I know are always lamenting about how annoying men can be approaching them at bars, the laundromat, out doing hobbies, etc. I don’t want to be that guy but have no idea how to potentially meet women outside of dating apps

It seems you already answered your own question.

They don't like being approached

Title	Women: If, where, and how would you like to be approached?
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Date	July 26, 2022 12:30 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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