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[–]CocoBabeNYC 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
So you can spend all day wondering if she likes you to the extend that you come in Reddit and post about it and then still think about it all weekend.
[–]Master_Musician_223 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
NO, it’s called friendship. She has a boyfriend dude.
[–]zertsetzung 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
"I am pretty attractive, a LOT more attractive than her actual boyfriend."
Perhaps, but he moved quicker with her and didnt miss open invitation windows for intimacy.
Judging by what little you told me it sounds as if you did. So thats why you lost out on her.
"So the question is, why is she giving me signs that she may be intrested but at the same time she gives me signs that she's unintrested?"
She's keeping you in her back pocket in case shit doesnt work out with her less attractive than you boyfriend.
IDK do you want to be the second choice (if she even does chose you and hasnt chosen some other mf over you?)
You wont be as valued as any new guy who comes into her life. You are always going to be associated in her mind as that dude who just didnt move quick enough with her. Even if you do happen to get better with women between now and the time that she does actually chose you.
Dont wait around for her.
[–]CompetitionFair7686 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Doesn’t matter if you are good looking because you got no game and getting good game can be learned in one afternoon by reading a reddit post, it requires real life experience with more girls, which means you have to focus your attention on other girls, talk in person with them and make things happen with them.
You ask why she gives mixed signals, have you considered they are not mixed signals? She is just not interested? If she sees your snaps, that doesn’t mean she secretly likes you. Nowadays everyone looks at everyone’s snapchats and stories, just for curiosity not because they secretly have a crush on you.
Another thing is that you still make the same mistake of trying to read a girls mind. Beta makes always do that, trying to overanalyse things rather than escalating things because they are cowards afraid of rejection.
If you are afraid of rejection and being clear you will not get her simple as that even if she was hinting for real that she is interested, it wouldn’t matter because your inner coward would come out sooner or later and ruin things.
So just move on or keep doing this shit forever and regret it later all the time wasted. Up to you
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