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[–]conorhuh 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Honestly dude, maybe she’s not the best for you. If you are already saying that you are not open to trying out her interests at all then that’s not a good start.
[–]Proper-Ad-3457 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
I am open to trying some of her interests just not weed which a) I don't like and b) could make me addicted to it and fuck up my future which is the main thing in life for me rn but I just really want to know her because she's probably the most interesting girl I have met
[–]conorhuh 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Fair enough, well just ask her stuff about her interests then. You say you are polar opposites so there must be a lot of stuff in her life that you have no experience with. Ask her about that stuff! If she’s passionate about it then she’ll love talking about it and if you subtly show through your reactions that you find it cool then that can show enough intent that you can at least go from there.
[–]Proper-Ad-3457 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Wow thanks for the advice! I feel that at work this she's a bit to uptight but when I followed her on insta she was a lot more laid-back so maybe she won't share that side with me. Do you think there are any good icebreaker questions for me to ask. Again, thanks for the advice
[–]conorhuh 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I guess you know her better so you’ll know best, but maybe ask her about if she’s got any plans for the summer and then in a teasing way say ‘I bet your one of those girls who are going to a tonne of festivals’ or something along those lines. Then she’ll talk about that and just be cool and funny, good eye contact and all that shit. Try catch her in the break room or something and just be super casual. You got this 🙌
[–]Proper-Ad-3457 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That's such a good idea, if you could give me more setups in DMs that would be great, thank you very much!
[–]TyroneStitches_ 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I'd say you're thinking too much. Just ask her out and get it out of your system. After the date, you can decide if you want to continue or not
Yeah but she barely knows me let alone asking her out, we've rarely talked at work and I don't want it to get awkward
[–]TyroneStitches_ 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
But that's what dates are about, getting to know each other. If you wait to long, another dude will slide right in.
[–]Proper-Ad-3457 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Agreed that another dude can take my spot but it seems to forward in our current relationship with each other
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