Currently working in a job, I'm a very hard working student and am pretty uptight but I work with a girl who looks really nice and is also really nice personality wise but she acts like a cool girl, smokes weed and goes to festivals. What can I do in this situation as we are kinda polar opposites but I want to get to know her? Please dm me with help.I want to get to know her so we can get closer because we don't speak that often and rarely speak at work because I am hard at work. I want to ask her out but I don't want to take part in activities like that because I'm worried what it will do to my future. Please don't tell me to just ask her out on a date as I seriously doubt that will work, any other advice would be great