Finally got laid after months of trying but it was mediocre, so I want to get better at sex

focus_flow69 · 2022-06-22T16:32:01+00:00

Be in control, take the lead, and act like you know what you are doing because you do.

If your dick is flaccid, then grab her hand and make her jerk you off and look her in the eyes, be direct, tell her to get you hard and you can't wait to fuck her. Show her how to get you hard. Show her what you like. Show her what turns you on. Most girls are passive in sex and look to the man for direction to escalate the situation.

If the guy is unsure of himself or doesn't take action and expects the woman to do everything, then it becomes an awkward expeirnece. After you've shown that you can take charge, then you can relax a bit and alternate between taking charge and just enjoying the moment and letting it flow naturally.

Sex is suppose to be fun, so do what you can do to try to make it fun and relax.

Pedalcrunch · 2022-06-22T17:46:42+00:00

Don't think about you, focus on the girl and they way you provide satisfaction to her, also think about how it feels and how good it is.

Creepy-Storage-1786 · 2022-06-22T12:28:39+00:00

Did you put a condom on?

Marcoscondit · 2022-06-23T19:02:29+00:00

The first time it’s not all that shit I remember after my first time I was kind of dussapointed, I mean it felt good but I thought it was going to be all hot like in movies or in porn 🤣(the first time )

Title	Finally got laid after months of trying but it was mediocre, so I want to get better at sex
Author	throwaway_axccc
Upvotes	7
Comments	5
Date	June 22, 2022 12:04 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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