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[–]Top_Contract2165 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I was a nice guy, it got me no where.
Now I am honest with women, I don't hide anything, that includes disagreeing, teasing, flirting, attraction. I don't care, honestly screw being liked by everyone.
The irony is I've never had it easier, the more blunt I am with women the more they seem to like it. My perspective entirely shifted after this, I have women in my life who have guys constantly hitting on them, like everywhere we go, it's always the same, "You're beautiful" blah blah blah. I'm not possessive so I let them take a shot because sadly I know they won't succeed.
I literally tease these girls to no end, I talk about taboo topics, I make them reveal what they really think about things, I disagree and tell them they are wrong. Yet they always choose me over the nice guys.
It comes down to this, society treats these women like angelic creatures, like Disney princesses. But they are not, a pretty face is just that, a pretty face. It's surface level, deep down she is normal. By teasing her, disagreeing and being honest you let her know that you don't view her through societies lens and women absolutely love this. They don't want to be viewed as angelic but as they are.
[–]TheJoeyJoeJoe 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Hell yeah. This is awesome to hear.
[–]soitsallgood 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
very good post. That is being real human not just nice guy.
Exactly. Sadly, a lot of us male humans are conditioned to adopt nice guy behavior.
[–]R0ZPIERDALAT0R 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I'm shocked it has so little upvotes. A lot of insightful stuff there, thanks!
The upvote percentage is very low. Perhaps unsurprising since it's literally a post about being polarizing.
[–]quiriviejita 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I agree with every point. This defines my relationship with women right now
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