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[–][deleted] 8 points9 points10 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
but i'm a theoretical cassanova.
[–]Tactical_INTJ 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
A theoretical manwhore.
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
A lot of mental, emotional and social inertia holding me back.
[–]Amikatey 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
If anyone ever told you it's easy to approach a stanger. Am sorry he lied to you. The truth is that is a little bit hard, you woun't really feel like it. Something inside you must atleast try to hold you back but you just have to push through it. So if your waiting for when you feel ready am sorry it will never come.
[–]dametime223 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Of course it is... Last week I approached few girls, got rejected every time but I felt 100x better than if I hadn't approached at all, that's the point.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
My biggest problem is probably going out alone. It's like. How am I supposed to be confident in those scenarios? Okay. So I know some women are attracted to me. The problem is idk how to really reach them most of the time.
In my younger days I approached alone and it didn't go well and that really discouraged me. I approached alone one night when I was out with friends. Hit it off with the girl after about 5-10 minutes. Met her friends. Got a number. Nothing came of it.
I still have a serious hesitancy of cold approach. No one said it would be easy though.
[–]whoareyou31 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Action matters more than knowledge. Youll learn just by being out in the field. Knowledge paired with action helps accelerate results.
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