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[–]ShortStuffV2 8 points9 points10 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Find a big ass list of hobbies and pick three to do each week. Doesn't matter what they are, just do them til something sticks, and always be trying new ones.
Glassblowing, swimming, deep sea cave hang gliding karate, doesn't matter. Going to places weekly and eventually finding people who catch your eye will be how you build your social circle
Find music or shows you like going to, and show up early (like ~30 minutes+) to talk to people about them or about their clothes or whatever
Learn to be an active listener, like, actually listen and give a shit, and think on what they say. People fucking love that shit, especially if you 100% genuinely find something interesting about them from it and say so in detail
[–]Liberaler 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The most logical thing is to connect with other people, who are also new in this city. There will be a Facebook group "New in X" or something like that. If there is nothing like that you could start one, or an event on meetup.com
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