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[–]Lazy-Fisherman-6881 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
You messed up at the end. You kind of glazed over it so I don’t know exactly what you did. But however you suggested that the two of you “go in for a bit” was not done correctly. Idk what else to say unless you can elaborate, but that’s what happened
[–]dropkilla 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Thats exactly what I said. I said let’s go in for a bit. What would you have said?
[–]Lazy-Fisherman-6881 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Oh I was giving you the benefit of the doubt. I didn’t realize you literally said that. Yeah no shit it didn’t work.
If I were in your shoes I would’ve created a fun reason to go inside. Just saying “let’s go in for a bit.”
Ok let me break that down: you’re making out and said “let’s go in.” So sex is implied. Women don’t like that.
Then you added “for a bit.” Which implies that you’re In n Out or don’t last that long
I know that seems silly but this is a game of inches (shut up). You have to deliver that closing line perfectly, and in my opinion you didn’t
You need to find some excuse to go inside. That’s the name of the game. “Wanna come check out my fish tank?” “Hey you mentioned you have an absurd beanie baby collection wanna show me?”
These are silly examples but you just need one more step away from implied sex and you’ll be fine.
[–]dropkilla 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Wow and that’s enough to completely turn her off :/
[–]premedchunsa 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Bro next time just say you gotta use the bathroom. It’s that easy man.
[–]Lazy-Fisherman-6881 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah 100%. You should never act like you’re going to have sex with a woman until you’re literally inside of her.
She is risking her reputation by sleeping with you. One’s reputation is one’s life, so her life is literally dependent on your confidence, as in secret-keeping. She doesn’t know what type of guy you are.
You need to play it way more casual than you did. And what I mean by that is finding reasons to be with her in places that lead to sex.
The reason she changed so hard is bc you did it totally right the first time without meaning to. It was just you and her in her car. Low key. No one knows.
Then you incongruously and bluntly said “let’s go inside for a bit.”
You need to create another car situation. Mechanically, find anything from your conversation that relates to inside the home, or inside her home. And use that as leverage to get inside.
Then get into the bedroom. This seems sleazy but women do not see it that way. Ironically, they see upfrontness as sleazy, bc any guy could say “hey let’s go inside” which to her is “hey let’s fuck.”
Be clever and suave and always managing her emotions. That is our duty as men.
[–]justmyballsandmyword 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Take what these heathens say and do with a grain of salt. She can act very into you and say things like “you’re so handsome…blah blah blah” and then the next day not gaf bout you. These girls savages. Imo you hit her up way too quick after that first date. Should have waited. Also please don’t contact her again. Let her reach out. If she doesn’t, charge it to the game and move on. Asking her if she is free not even a week after you just saw her comes off as needy.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I wont say the other answers are wrong but based on what you wrote, you didnt do anything particularly wrong. It sounds like her problem and not related to your actions. So there isnt anything to worry about. Maybe she was cheating, maybe she got shocked about having sex, maybe she was horny and then didnt feel horny and thought you were ugly. All these random things might be true as much as the other.
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