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[–]bengosu16 7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Cut the part with the ig posts, u seem like a stalker. The rest is good. I m curious to see how it goes so give us updates.
[–]jvori 4 years ago [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link
Thought it wouldn’t be a problem as we follow each other and she’s been posting about a big trip for more than a week now. Feels more stalkerish to send her this message without a small reason like that imo. That small reason is not only the truth but also why I’m essentially here in the first place
[–]bengosu16 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You should do as you feel best, so mention the ig posts. Good luck chap!!
[–]jvori2 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Much appreciated man
[–]Liberaler 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
there will be tons of other girls in college. Drop that focus on her. You haven't even talked to her. All you think about her is a fantasy in your head. You don't know whether she is that great.
If she is attractive and has a good profile on social media, she already has more than enough guys hitting on her that way. Be different, try to chat her up in real life. This will increase your chances.
Never be "honestly intrigued" for no real reason. You know how the saying goes: Treat her like a star and she will treat you like a fan. You don't have her respect yet, don't give her yours so easily. Keep balance.
[–]Educational-Ad-6197 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Not a good idea, sounds crazy but you need to try and run into her in person and ask her out.
[–]jvori1 point 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
My odds of running into her are pretty low and attempting to create an organic meeting from essentially stalking her is not really something I want to do, could you elaborate on why you think this text isn’t a good idea?
[–]CocoBabeNYC 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is a terrible message to snap. You don't know this girl. Why do you want to take someone out (reward them) just for being pretty? This puts you in the weak position right away (you are below her because you are forced to be nice to a girl you don't even know).
Instead send a message introducing yourself. Give her a compliment on something you saw in her social media posts (but don't try too hard), just something that got your attention and that she obviously worked for. So don't say "wow you are so pretty", but do say "I just saw this pic of you and love how this dress is hugging your figure". The implication being that she worked hard to find a dress that compliments her body.
Have a few back and forths and then tell her "Hey, I'm enjoying this. Let's go out and spend some time getting to know each other and seeing if there is any chemistry". Then suggest a time and date.
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