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anon018274031 · 2022-05-17T18:11:21+00:00

Same. I’m also the same age.

I was talking about it with all my friends the other days. As teens we got LOADS of interest from older men, most of us don’t look that different and now we get absolutely none or near to non.

Guess we are too old 😬😂

Titty_Slicer_5000 · 2022-05-17T18:28:20+00:00

Are you overweight? Are you fit? Do you have a lot of acne? The truth is that looks matter a lot to men than they do to women, so being a woman your looks are much more important than a man’s in terms of being hit on and first impressions. The good news is that you can make yourself much more attractive by becoming fit and by paying more attention to your appearance. Find a sexy hairstyle and general fashion style that fits you. If you have a lot of acne go see a dermatologist and get on a skin care routine. That shit will help a lot. Get more in touch with your feminine side, men love feminine women. This doesn’t mean to change yourself into a prissy girly girl. Just find what aspects of femininity you like and want to express, and express those more.

This is not to say looks are the only thing that matter. They’re not at all. But looks will disqualify you in a lot of the opposite sex’s eyes around the age bracket I’m assuming you’re looking at. This is true for both men and women, but it is much more true for women than for men. However do not change who you are at your core. Your values. Your passions. Because looks may get you in the door, but who you are and who you choose to date is really what makes a relationship.

I’m not trying to be an asshole or anything, I’m just giving you my perspective as a 28 year old man. I need to be physically attracted to the woman I’m dating. That’s just the truth. If you’re not getting hit on at all and men are by and large not responding well to you hitting on them then you are likely unattractive, coming off very weird or strange, or a combination of both. The good news is that at 24 you are still young and have plenty of time to make yourself more attractive. You truly have the power to do that. Best of luck to you :)

HowToBehaive · 2022-05-17T18:30:32+00:00

Looks are the first filter. If you can't cut the mustard in that department then you will be filtered into the friend category regardless of how much you click.

I highly recommend going to the gym regularly for anyone, especially people who are single. Great for mental and emotional health, plus you eventually become a little bit more attractive day by day.

jenny4life · 2022-05-17T19:03:09+00:00

Be yourself;)

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