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[–]BigPapiKC 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Just let the conversations flow homie. Don’t overthink it, just go with the wind. Be yourself. Be calm, cool, and collected. If that doesn’t work, it just means you had no real chemistry.
[–]DGGreed 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I realized that I'm way to tense. Alcohol really helps me, but I want to do it without it.
[–]BigPapiKC 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Just relax yourself. Don’t think about it too much. When she sees you’re relaxed and comfortable with yourself, she’ll feel the same and engage with you more.
[–]DGGreed 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Easier said than done, but I think spending more time outside will help me feel more relaxed.
[–]Sea_Particular_9086 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
You gotta be comfortable in your own skin. If you’re comfortable with yourself you set no expectations on the outcome of the date. Indifferent attitude, if she likes me ,she likes me, if she dont, she dont.
I'm cobfortable in my own skin, but I feel like I put too much pressure on the date, now that I'm thinking about. I'm afraid that I will never find someone so that thing is so annoing...
[–]Sea_Particular_9086 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
Thats the thing dont set any expectations, you say you‘re comfortable in your own skin, take a step back and really look yourself in the mirror.
Your confidence in yourself is lacking currently.
Ask you self why you put pressure on yourself—Im the shit I got this job, money in the bank, this car, friends, family my purpose in life. Why wouldn’t a girl like me i got my shit together.
Those small achievements
Thank you, this is a good advice.
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