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[–]hoomadehoo 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Approach her yesterday. Get some balls and tell her you think you followed her on social media. Either she rejects you again or accepts your request
[–]Ghost_Chump 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Will do. Trying to see run into her outside of the gym to make it less intrusive but will just full send it next time I see her
[–]ChewyButterMilk 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Don’t assume anything. Since you mentioned that your dm to her was just saying he wanna get coffee, she is less likely to respond because she doesn’t know you. It doesn’t matter if she followed you, it’s still important to have some sort of connection.
Yesterday I approached a girl at the library, my friend was on the phone and I actually tried something funny since I’m just having fun and handed her the phone to which my friend asked her if she likes my type of boys. She looked up and said yes. Well anyways she put her phone in and hasn’t responded to my text even though in person she was smiling and everything.
Next time you see her at the gym, don’t worry about the things you’ll say if she says this or that. Just think about what you want to say to her when you approach and let the conversation flow. I find it easier to socially warm up so just talk to a few people at the front desk for example for a job application or something like that.
Good luck OP
[–]Ghost_Chump 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
LOL @ your library story. That confidence is what I’m trying to develop. I saw her today at the gym but pussied out. Something about her just takes away my confidence and it’s incredibly intimidating. I know I need to just grow a pair and go for it
[–]ChewyButterMilk 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Yeah and to be honest a month ago I was in a similar position to you. But what changed my mindset was not caring about the outcome.
You won’t die if you get rejected. Although we all will die one day so that’s a good motivation as well. Watch James Tusk on YouTube for some good day game content.
Again, go approach her. Count to 3 if you need to and just start walking trust me it will be easy if you do that. Remember that approach anxiety is just you being excited, and you’re just having fun. You got this bro!
[–]Ghost_Chump 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Appreciate that bro I’m gonna do it as soon as the opportunity presents itself again. God bless
[–]ChewyButterMilk 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
And let’s say if you don’t do it, don’t beat yourself up over it. There’s always another girl :)
But do it! Good luck
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