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[–]North_Dog7366 4 years ago [recovered] (4 children) | Copy Link
Never remind the girl that the date is coming. Never never never. This gives her an opportunity to flake and think "well, do I really want to go out with him?" and shows that you might be used to people flaking on you. Instead of confirming the date this way, send her on What'sApp the map location of the place you're meeting the day before, or something related to the date like "We'll meet in front of X".
For filtering out the women seeking validation I think it's good to ask them out within 2-4 texts each. That way you don't waste time on these people. The validation seekers will stop responding to you after you ask them out.
[–]Awkward_Management28 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Is it bad to not massage anything during the dat and flake on her to show your busy?
[–]North_Dog7366 4 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
Don't flake on her just to show you're busy. That'll make her ghost you.
You don't have to message anything during the day of the date. Maybe a text like I suggested at most.
[–]Awkward_Management28 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I had girl before I used to ask her addresses but she never sends it and she says she will but don’t she done this twice and she said during night on the phone she said let’s now come to my house I refused and said I can’t because I thought she’s a time waister I blocked her
[–]agileipa 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
In my experience some communication the day of or the day before is needed. She needs to feel that connection, remember women are emotional and their feelings change often. And the more options and hotter they are the more they flake. My experience has been to send a message same day to change the time. “My friend needs my help can we do 730 instead?” This works well or the day before I will send kinda a gamey text like, “hey wear something cute tomorrow so we match”
[–]Awkward_Management28 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Avoid hot women and I should focus on ugly or average women for a better because I don’t striking facial features
[–]agileipa 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Not at all. I am not sure where the disconnect is but you need to understand your facial features doesn’t mean anything when dating women. I have dated my share of women and my only point is the really physically hot ones have guys simping on the all the time. Like it’s insanely interesting how these women live their lives. So if you make a good impression and you have plans for the weekend and it’s a Monday and you haven’t reached out she is going to be approached by tons and tons of guys in the meantime. So it’s easy for her to go with another guy and blow you off and she can justify it by saying I guess he lost interest because he didn’t reach out. Does that make sense ?
[–]Awkward_Management28 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Yes have u heard of the black pill
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