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[–]CompetitionFair7686 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You are literally in the friendzone, yes you might think it feels like a lot but actually it is pretty normal when you are in the friendzone. So normal that others might even say “you guys are dating?” but you are not.
I think you need to understand that girls love talking platonically, the more you talk with a girl the more deep into the friendzone you get.
When you want to get laid with q girl you need to talk less and act more in other words make moves and shut the hell up.
the fact that she even tells you that you better not fancy her or that she wants to help you with other girls pretty much says it all. if a girl truly was into you and really wanted you to make a move she would never ever in a million years say something like that.
Like:
“oh i like like this guy so let me tell him that i will help him date other girls”
Fuck no.
The rest is all irrelevant.
Your problem is that you are choosing to become friends with girls you want to date which is always a mistake. You should not be direct, not become her best friend.
[–]Warm_Can236 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Keep her guessing and give her a chance to miss you. I know it sucks having to walk on egg shells but having some self respect and keeping her on her toes will probably make her think about you in a romantic way.
[–]Underrated_Prince 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The first paragraph should have given you your answer
She's just friendly brother
[–]Warm_Can236 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You are in the friendzone. Try not to be so available. And when she brings up things like being your wingman or anything of that nature. Do not respond.
If none of this advice helps. Move on and try with someone else.
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