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[–]SpecialPowerss 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Brother,
You think because she wore the same colors as you that it was a sign she wanted you to approach? Ponder on that rationale for a second then get back to me 👌🏿
[–]agileipa 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
So I am sure lots of people will have different opinions. But let me tell you an experience I had with my barber. Who is very hot. We became really good friends and talked a lot during my haircuts. I could feel the sexual tension building and building. I made up a casual excuse for her to chill with me and she did. When we were out I told her I really like how she cuts my hair and it’s very hard for me to find someone to do it the way I like it. So I said I am willing to chill with her and just see what happens but at the end of the day I still want her to cut my hair. We hooked up a few times and it was fun but I am not really interested in her anymore and she still cuts my hair and it’s not weird. So my point here is if you approach her and keep it very casual and build rapport first, if she is there everyday it will be simple to just talk about casual things and don’t escalate or go for the number for a few visits. Then you can express your concerns on the date or something like that. Hope that helps.
[–]CompetitionFair7686 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You act as if her giving you signals to approach was enough to seal the deal. Even if she is giving you signals to approach her that can all go to hell if you come across as dull boring awkward or insecure when you talk to her.
So there is no point trying to overthink if she is giving you signals or not, because even if she is, it doesn’t guarantee sucess.
And even if she is NOT giving you signals at all, it also doesn’t guarantee failure if you somehow surprise her with a fun and refreshing personality.
So just do it.
[–]Charming_Ad_8499 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Honestly bro I’d just say “hi, I’ve noticed how determined you are” or something like that and you think it’s awesome, what’s your name?
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