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[–]Electric_kundalini 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Have you been to see a therapist? Maybe that'll help with an unresolved issue.
[–]txanpi 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You are not alone on this, in my case, I dont feel anxious about getting touched but as well as you I dont like it even if I'm a very extroverted guy. I've been working on that and trying to get the initiative and with time you can improve this issue you are having.
Letting aside your anxiety problem, I think is another of many problems that a person can face in his life, so you have to face it and try to get out of your comfort zone.
Im my case, I'm always honest to the person I'm dating and I think that if the other person knows this from the very beginning its better, and works sometimes. So dont worry about what you are able or not to give to your partner, because, if he understands you, then he should respect that and be more "cautious" lets say.
This is what I learnt an I hope it can help to overcome your problem! Stay positive!
[–]Zealousideal-Gur-570 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You tried telling him?
[–]tajinlov3r 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I told him that I’m an anxious when it comes to dating. He’s a nice guy and he understood what I said I think. I haven’t told him about the touching thing though.
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