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[–]Delicious_Ad_1853 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
We're a great match across everything you would imagine.
No you're not. Wanna know how I know?
6-7 months later, she said she doesn't know how she feels about me, and things eventually ended
That's how I know. Great matches don't break up that quickly. Maybe she didn't tell you the real reason for the breakup or maybe she did but you didn't listen well enough. Either way, one thing is certain: the relationship wasn't working as well as you thought it was.
because I thought and felt that she was the one.
That happens. I'm still working through a breakup that was similarly jarring. It suuuuuucks when you realize you invested a lot of energy into a bad match, but what can you do? 🤷♂️ It happens.
A good relationship is mutually beneficial. Both partners are overjoyed by the relationship most of the time. "The one" will be so full of elgood feelings that she won't dump you. This girl did dump you, so obviously you now know that she wasn't "the one".
How do i move on from this?
Same way you move on from anything else: you stop making it the focus of your day. Instead of plotting ways to get her back, start plotting ways to meet new women. Preferably, new women who are better matches for you.
[–]lV1663I2 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Go to the gym reject women embrace masculinity
[–]ksmith11011 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The most effective way to get over someone is to start seeing someone else. People object to it but that’s reality. One exciting first date that ends with a kiss.. you won’t be thinking about the old girl any more.
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